Do results reflect a partner’s HIV status?

Hello LVCT,

I took a HIV test during World AIDS Day and it turned HIV negative. I shared the results with my partner but he now maintains there is no need of him taking a test since my results have shown that we both don’t have the virus. Is it true or should he take a test as well?

Beca

Dear Beca,

I appreciate the brave step you took to know your status. That is commendable and I hope you will adopt the preventive measures that suit you.

Your HIV test result reveals only your HIV status only, and not that of someone else. Your negative test result does not indicate whether or not your partner has HIV. Your taking a HIV test should not be seen as a method of finding out if your partner is infected. Remember there are instances where one partner is HIV negative and the other is HIV positive (despite the fact that you may be having sex without a condom). Thus your status remains only yours.

You might want to discuss issues related to your partner’s HIV status. For instance, how does he feel without the knowing his HIV status? In addition, what risk behaviours has he engaged in, both currently and in the past? Are there any fears your partner might be having? So you will need to address them before you can think of taking a test together.

It is important to take steps to reduce your risk of getting HIV. If you are not sure that both you and your partner are HIV negative, use a latex condom to help protect yourselves from HIV and sexually transmitted infections until you confirm each other’s status.

Remember you have a responsibility to take care of your life!