Don't put up with a useless man just because he has 'future' potential

Stand up for your man. Build your man. Fix your man. We would still use 'Bottom up' in this context of encouraging women to, literally, start small with the men in their lives and walk with them from little or nothing, into their years of wealth and health. Beats me.

But aren't these some of the many narratives Aunty Tabby and Aunty Magdalena have taught us about being a good woman? That a good woman is one who doesn't ask for the fine things in life but accepts to generously share herself and what she has, in the name of love.