Social media fueling mothers’ insecurities

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Motherhood as is, is a very tough job. During the first year, most mums feel like they are failing because of the criticism and unsolicited advice from the people around them.  Mums are increasingly seeking help from other mums through social media. It has easily been adapted as a parenting tool where mums share their experiences, respond to things they relate to as well as uplift others. Studies have shown that mothers use these platforms more than fathers do. Generally, social media is a resourceful source of information. Some parents have received social and emotional support through their networks. 

A typical day can be messy. Sometimes it basically means a lot of laundry, changing diapers, or vomit all over. Nursing mums might spend the whole day napping if their babies are the type that nap through the day and stay awake during the night. Some moms are battling with postpartum depression.To add on this pile, are the picture-perfect moms in matching outfits with clean and fed babies posing for photos on social media. This juxtaposition of motherhood, piles a pressure on moms that they are probably not doing enough.