Six things a man should consider before buying lingerie for his woman

Your woman’s birthday is just around the corner. As usual, you have ran out of ideas on what to gift to her. You wish you hadn’t gotten her two gifts last year but now it’s too late to brood over that.

While you’re still beating your head for that, you remember she once mentioned how great it would be if you surprised her with lingerie. You want to kick that idea out of your mind but sadly, it sounds like the only choice you have.

You wait until it’s late and walk reluctantly into the lingerie shop across the street. At this hour, you are almost sure no one from the office will see and judge you.

On getting into the shop, you feel lost and you don’t know wheather to settle your eyes on the rows and rows of frills or on the shop attendant who looks like she was made to exist under petals and moonlight.

All the items on sale look good and you can’t decide on what to pick or what to leave. You grab a few things, pay and dash out of the shop.

You get home and your woman doesn’t love the items you bought. She doesn’t even want to try them on and you wonder where you went wrong. To avoid all these drama, follow the simple factors listed below;

Her love and tastes

You might find orange and green interesting colours and that’s what you bring home to her. Unfortunately, she hates orange and she thinks green doesn’t suit her skin. Any lingerie you buy her in these two shades will always sit at the bottom of her drawer, with the shop tag still on. You may also be into laces and frills but is that really a thing to her? Try finding out what her taste is by asking or looking through what she already has.

Know her size

It is okay for you to feel out of place in a room that is full of lingerie of all sizes and makes. You might think you know her size by just looking and so you end up grabbing the first size 30 your hand finds. Unfortunately, you don’t know if that’s really what she puts on. You might have also missed out that a letter is always attached to the number. To avoid this, check her size from the ones she already owns and ask the shop attendant to help you in getting them.

Comfort

You should keep in mind that these item you’re purchasing will be worn so close to your woman’s skin. As much as you love seeing kinky stuff, it is not you who will wear it. Do not get her bulky or latex stuff unless if you have seen her in possession before. There is difference between comfort and sexy, she will always choose the former.

Occasion

What occasion did you have in mind when you decided to get the items? If the lingerie is to be worn to work, it will definitely be different from the ones she puts on during your bedroom cosplays. Do not mix up the occasion in your excitement. She might never wear them if you get this wrong, even if you lost an arm to pay for them.

Material

Some fabrics are known to have different feel on the skin. Cotton will be good for her while latex will be uncomfortable. Too much detail on the item may be bulky to walk around in while ribbons and frill may be too much for her. Do not go for looks before you tell if she will love the fabric.

Matching

You are likely to love a pant from one set and a brassiere from another. This way you end up choosing colours and textures so different from each other. She will appreciate your choice but may not wear them .This is because women are known to love matching sets of things. Get a pant that matches her bra and she might just declare it her best pair.

While it is a great thought to surprise her with this unique gift, it is good to know that she might not be so eager to try them on. Do not pressure her to, as this will come off as if you bought them for yourself. Give her time and she will go through them at her time.

If she doesn’t love the pair you found hot, do not be upset. She might not love that specific type but she acknowledges your efforts. Lastly, do not put much emphasis for her to keep putting them on, she might begin to think you bought them to make her worth looking at. Appreciate the fact that she looks good with or without them.