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A healthy relationship is what any human being desire to have , but the naked fact is that relationship are not just built easily but needs a strong foundations in order for it to survive hard times.

Most relationships between students in colleges are characterised by childish behaviors and too much of begging culture & less of seriousness of taking each other as potential marriage partners.

Many young people end up feeling wasted by being in relationship that is not worth building , but that was best at swallowing their invaluable time , which their could have used to pursue other critical activities which in long run could aid their future prosperity.

In many institutions , most student have adopted come - we - stay arrangement while others have adopted the culture of striving to satisfy their greedy girlfriends materially, financially, inviting them to join them in eating food from big hotels that is cost, just to impress them.

Some guys end up buying expensive things for their perceived girlfriend, but in reality do not reflect critically on the commitment of the girl to the relationship.

Unfortunately, most campus boys take their girls for granted till the girl tell the boy it’s over. Most students before going to colleges, don’t understand the principles of a healthy relationship and how boys / men, girls / ladies of these 21st century behave and think.

These end in fake relationships, end committing suicide or lead self-pity life characterised by low self-esteem and lady phobia.

The girls lie to boys, calling them sweet words like: honey, beib, darling etc. just to grab their attention fully and worst of all they tell them that they are the only men on earth they are in full love with, when the fact is that they are dating many other men.

Student must be very cautious in engaging in fake relationships that don't take them anywhere, they must strive to read smart materials on building healthy relationships and demand best practices from whoever they date, otherwise self-pity and suicidal stories shall remain.