I love my husband but I can’t stop thinking about a man I slept with during work trip

I am in a five-year relationship with someone – we are best friends, childhood sweethearts and ridiculously well-matched. It has honestly been such a perfect relationship.

We often talked about the future and I was always content – until I had to move to Latin America for a six-month work placement. The huge time difference made it a struggle to talk to each other. But we kept going due to how strong our relationship was when I left. Then I met a man who I completely fell for.