“Come on! Your man is in Germany, let us go out and have fun,” you plead with your beautiful neighbor. She is not impressed by your overtures. You moved too fast, you realize and you must backtrack. You want to show her that you totally respect her choice of a man and you have no desire of rocking them apart. You just want to go out, have one or two drinks and come back.
“I don’t like going out with another man, it is a small world,” she says, not hundred percent resisting your offer. You just need a good counteroffer.