Dear future husband

Dear future husband,

I hope this letter finds you well and that in this moment, you are thinking about me too.

I have waited all my life to find you, and each time I think I have found you and find out it’s not you, my heart breaks a little.

If I were to count all the broken pieces over the years, I would never have the time to find you.

That being said, I have noticed where I have always gone wrong. See, I have dreamt about you, since I was a little girl, what you look like, what your hair and eyes look like, your body, your feet, your clothes, everything, I have designed you in my head so you meet all the standards and all my needs, but I have to come to learn that sometimes, it is wise to acknowledge that this is really just my fantasy.

In my head, you have beautiful brown eyes and well-cut hair, a well-built body that is to die for, very nicely tailored clothes and feet that smell like vanilla, even after a long long day in dirty boots.

In my head, you smile at me and sweep me off my feet, you take my breath away, and you never make me angry, my own Ken doll.

In my head, you agree with well, everything I say and you make me feel all so important like i could never do any wrong.

In my head, you are strong and fearless and Hot, like Thor.

In my head, I am you are Aphrodite

We have that Romeo and Juliet kind of love, minus the tragic death and the bloody mess.

Then I wake up and take a breath, and start over.

See, we all want our perfect man, our knight in shining armour.

But is there such a thing as a perfect man?

Or do we just meet the man that meets all those things "in our heads" in ways that we just never expected, I don’t mean a compromise, I mean the beauty in the man and the relationship we find that is just so unexpected.

Let’s be honest, Waiting for Mr. Right or Mr. Perfect to show up is simply another aspect of a fantasy we all live.

Your perfect man is probably the one you expect the least, or the next guy you meet, or the old friend you've known for way too long, or your crush, a guy next door, who knows, and honestly, should we really care that much?

I will tell you this,though, he is there, maybe you've met him, maybe you're about to, all in all, you will meet him.