Just one kid

“One kid babe and you will see how our lives will change,” he said it as he laid her down. The arousal was too high to resist and fall for the words.

Most relationships that our youth today undergo do not mature to long term relationships or be a cause of marriage. The fear of commitment is real. With too much of words men feed their ladies and fewer actions to show commitment.

Relationship is not all about intimacy or rather her beauty. No! She might be seriously searching for a committed, honest, loving and welcoming heart to settle when you (man) are busy having fun and leave her heartbroken with no choice.

Some men go to an extent of dating more than one lady. This is because of fear. Fear to loose either of them. In most instances, men do this because of two reasons; either they love one of the or like the deeds of the other more than just her personality.

Beauty is what most of us will go for. But which kind of beauty is this we are talking about? Is it the beauty in the heart or just the beautiful face? She can have a model body, stunning eyes that leave you blushing and dimpled face with appetizing lips.

Yes. She got all you can admire or rather spend most times watching. But, does all that beauty in physique correspond with her deeds?

Still you claim you love them both and don’t want to lose either of them. Then you remain with one option; impregnating the innocent woman to trap her in your life and have a bond to you through the kid. Is this really a better reason to be in that relationship?

Because she is cute and beautiful you want your children to look like her. Alright am not against having beautiful kids but you may end up loving the kids more than her.

Enough is enough. It is time ladies set up standards. Walk out of that relationship because it doesn’t suit you. Give him a chance to choose and not you to choose for him. You deserve better.