Ladies, this is why men 'hit it' and lose interest

By Brian Okoth (@brianokoth2)

Being a lady is complicated. Interacting with men is even more complicated. But, the most difficult thing  for ladies to fathom is despite being so drop-dead gorgeous, men come, have some fun with you, and later on fly away.

A mother genesis to whole this is that men are very much attracted to women they chase before sex.

Keenly looking at the concept of men and the chase, your facial looks may not be the only reason he decides to go after you.

Men want more than a pretty face to stick around. Look at this: side chicks are often physically less attractive than wives or girlfriends. From this I think it will be correct for us to deduce that a man’s sexual thoughts and imaginations are ignited by what he finds sexy in a woman, and not necessarily what the universe thinks is sexy.

Just to look at what men find sexy:

Being yourself

I find plump and full ladies really attractive, and can’t have enough of looking at one donned in a free-flowing maxi dress, shoed in nice sandals and accessorizes her outfit with reasonable amount of jewelry that complements her skin tone.

Simply put: whether tall, short, flat-chested, curvy, plump, skinny, little posteriors name them-that is just so much enough to make at least four men you meet in a day go sleepless, fantasizing of how they’ll get a bite of you. Sounds weird, but this is what will ignite him to chase you; not perfect looks!

However, there is the other side: men hunt, and once they corner their prey, they may choose to stay or go. What will drive them to go?

When they bed you pretty fast

Men before taking you to bed can do anything and everything just to make sure they see you drop that small piece of cloth. Some of the flaws they see in you before taking you to bed may seem really petty; for instance he may not have particularly cared that you are a heavy drinker before bedding you, but, after ‘opening up’ for him pretty fast, he will scrutinize everything about you in finer details just to find a reason to escape; he got what he wanted after all; probably within 5 days or less.

Girl, those sweet compliments he was giving you prior to sex were driven by the desire to get in you between the sheets, and too bad you opened up so quickly! Automatically he loses interest fearing you might open up to another man that easily if he ‘wifes’ or ‘girlfriends’ you.

When you do friends-with-benefits

Once a guy has sex with a lady a few times, they enter a “friends-with-benefits” situation, and the lady in many instances starts to raise her hopes and gets emotionally attached to the man, yet his intention was purely sex!

Hey look, he has done it all with you; in every imaginable and wild piece of position he can; you’ve left no mystery for him to unfold; give me a reason why he should stick around?

Poor Hygiene

This point is such a sad reality; nobody even the lady’s themselves would want to stick around a not-so-clean place. If this gentleman of chivalry has been chasing you for a century, he hopes to get something worth the time spent on the chase! Something clean if not flawless. You better make sure ‘miss glory’ is always a sparkle if you want him to stick around. I bet you understand what I mean.

All said and done, make him chase it, show him your worth, keep ‘it’ a sparkle and maintain your body beauty; minimize if not doing away with stretch marks, and moisturizing your body. He will stick around, and you’ll thank me later.