You have probably struggled with keeping your cool. Most of us have. And perhaps you have wondered how some people manage to stay composed even when everything around them seems to be falling apart. The answer often lies in something less visible than willpower and far more powerful than simple patience: emotional fitness.
To be emotionally fit is to sit with stress without being consumed by it, to speak through conflict without lashing out, and to remain present in moments that might once have silenced or overwhelmed you. Psychologists often connect this capacity to emotional regulation. The ability to manage and respond to emotions in a way that is flexible, constructive, and aligned with your values.