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How to heal a broken relationship
By Paul Barasa | Updated Jan 24, 2017 at 15:12 EAT
1st Corinthians 13:1-3 the bible says “If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a ringing gong or a clanging cymbal. 2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have absolute faith so as to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3If I give all I possess to the poor and exult in the surrender of my body, but have not love, I gain nothing.…”
We all know that love is patient and it is easier said than done. We also know that a relationship exists where there is love. When I talk about healing a broken relationship a mean each and every kind of relationship. It may be a marriage, it might be a business partnership, it might be a brother-sister relationship, it can also be a religious relationship. All the relationships here are exclusive.This is a guideline on how to heal broken relationships. First and foremost know the reason why you are in a given relationship. That will drive you to work towards making the relationship work instead of looking for alternative options.We should always attribute every relationship to God. God is the author of every relationship so when we go back to Him in prayer He will direct us.At any given time never quit any relationship unless God releases you. Problems should not edge you from a relationship because you never know God’s plan for you in that relationship.Stay put, get used to the situation because challenges are there to strengthen you. They will serve as a point of reference for your victory. The grace will be sufficient enough to propel you forward.The fact that you have problems today does not mean that tomorrow you will have problems in your relationship it is just a continuous circle that has new things.Learn to face the difficult situations in a relationship instead of running away from them. This will help you to know how to deal with challenges and give you a mileage in a relationship.Be a person who is able to look at things in different angles so that you may make a clear judgment and always take you time before you make a conclusion.Learn to be patient with each other because in every relationship people complement one another. If I have a weakness your strength will substitute it. I exist because you are.Always be ready to forgive because when you forgive you make your spirit free. This will allow the spirit of God to dwell in your heart and when it is there it will give you a wise counsel. When you harbor bad feelings or hatred it will depart.Know that you will only appreciate a turbulent relationship because when you heal it will separate impurities from your life and make you a refined person.So, my brother and sister, I pray that your faith may not fade.Know that this is not always an easy road, but it will help build your character.I know it is hard to call all those tough times friends but you have to because that is what will mold you into a super human being.Appreciate who you have in a relationship and move on because there are many people who want to be like you.May it be well with you in all your relationships.

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