21 ways to handle a break up

1. "Be sure it's what you want"

Before you say goodbye make sure it's what you want. Breaking up, separation, divorce should be the last option after every step to salvage the relationship/ marriage has been taken. Sometimes you have no choice but to end it because the person you have been loving has become a danger or a source of pain who shows no sign of changing despite your patience and compromise. Sometimes even if a break up is not what you want, a break up is what the other party is forcing you to accept. Sometimes we break because the relationship was not of God.