It’s never about the journey, it’s the destination that matter. Right? Or is it the other way round?
Intimacy cannot be taken lightly, especially when a relationship is in its initial stages. Every bit of what goes on in the bedroom before, during and after love-making will one way or another determine how long that relationship will last.
While it’s allowed to conclude that different people have different intimate sessions, there are common behaviors exhibited in the bedroom.
Here are some annoying things women do after getting intimate with a guy:
Getting dressed immediately
Unless it’s a quickie, there’s no way one can make love at 8.00 am and get dressed at 8.15. When a lady does this, it makes the man feel like he was violating her privacy.
Lovers linger in bed naked after getting intimate, cuddle and make stories.
Over-dramatization
Sometimes the movies we watch secretly tend to get into our heads.
The screams, conversations and movements when making love sometimes are not well-coordinated as they are in the films. This is the real world.
Talking about your past intimate life
Once lovemaking is done, please don’t bring up stories about how your ex was in bed. This is the ultimate deal-breaker. Once you do this, the man will have little or no interest in you.
He immediately starts reviewing his options, just in case you end up in bed with your ex once more. There’s a reason why it’s called a ‘past’ life.
Questions
Any man who likes being asked questions while trying to undress and make love to a lady please stand up…………. I thought so. Too many questions during a steamy intimate session ruin the party.
It slows down the tempo and even erases the man’s urge to make love to you. A lady who asks too many questions in bed appears insecure to the man. Trust is needed.
Backing out at the last minute
Surely, you cannot keep a man’s hopes up and fail to deliver when you get to his bedroom. Once you accompanied this man to his house, you knew what was going down.
He will not be a happy chap if you decide to back out, especially while he’s undressing.