Pornography bait

By Simon

So the guys managed to buy some adult magazines and some really hot DVDs from the backstreet. The plan is to link up at this dude’s place and just have fun.

You have been with them many times over as you enjoyed that explicit stuff including the movies, magazines and adult websites. You are considering attending — it seems like the cool thing to do. But where will this leave you? Where has porn left you in the past and where is it leading you?

Where it leaves you

Well, you do it with the guys or enjoy it alone at the dimly lit cyber or in your room. When with the guys, the excitement is exhilarating as you watch those people get at it. The secrecy behind it makes it even more intriguing but when it ends, you face the torment alone.

Pornography is the explicit portrayal of sexual acts of certain people for the consumption of others mainly for the purpose of increasing sexual tension.  We get aroused or ‘turned-on’ when sexual tension builds in our bodies.

Once in a while, it builds up naturally but sometimes we deliberately cause it to increase by exposing ourselves to sexual content be it books, magazines, movies or entertaining sexual thoughts.

Something has to give

Whenever there is tension, something has to give. Things break or buildings collapse because they cannot hold the tension — it is a way of release.  When sexual tension builds, it has to be released one way or the other. You know only too well how you release the tension when it builds.

You may have realised that the aftermaths of porn leave you desirous to have sex and unlike the married guys, this is one thing that is not always available. So here you are, extremely turned on, no girl around to sort you out but remember the tension has built — it has to be released. What do you do?

Effects of pornography

Pornography has been proven to be the leading cause of masturbation for men. If you observe carefully, most of the guys (just like you) will spend sometime in the bathroom afterwards.  In addition to increasing your appetite for masturbation, pornography will always leave negative impressions in your mind. 

As a result, any female person you come across, be it a teacher, friend, neighbour or housemaid, becomes a potential sex partner. You even go further and have sex with them in your mind — effectively leading you to masturbation.

Porn has led many young men to have an unhealthy sexual appetite for older women. This also leads them to commercial sex workers, exposing them to many risks such as contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) the most dangerous being HIV.

Other noticeable effects of porn consumption include reduced concentration in your studies, declining grades, low self-esteem, lack of skills in approaching and tuning girls (because you depend on those tired lines and moves from the DVDs, which don’t work in real life) and that your interest in ladies reduces because you are ‘self-contained.’ 

Make the decision

Is this the kind of man you want to become? Instead of spending hours watching those funny movies, why not spend time getting to know a girl you like from your neighbourhood?

The feeling you get from scoring with a beautiful girl is better than the guilt and shame that comes with pornography and masturbation. It’s your call, dude.