How to be second wife: Proud second wives speak out, and give tips

There is literally no man out there who is available who is really worth being in relationship with?

• How does it feel to be married to a man who already has another wife? The nightmare of dealing with a hostile co-wife, grown step children or generally being trapped in constant competition with a co-wife?

Polygamy is a concept that has been with us for a while now. For far too long, “second wife” label had some negative connotations. The title came with a lot of baggage and in some cases stigma.

To some people, it looked like it was a backward living arrangement that only ‘desperate’, lowly and village-bred women embraced.