Could my husband be a psycho?

Angry young African man screaming at woman

I met my husband Paul after I just turned 35. He was about 42 and looking to settle down.  He seemed like a nice enough guy; polite, well-educated and amiable.

I was also keenly aware that years were running out fast for me, at least where my biological clock was concerned. And I was ready to wear a ring on my finger.  So when he proposed to me, I said yes.