By JOHN MUTURI
Most couples experience mixed feelings at the prospect of becoming parents, particularly when it is their first child. Initially, there’s excitement at the thought of having a baby in the family, someone extra to love and care for. Then comes uneasiness; won’t a baby cause an enormous disruption to their existing lifestyle? It’s also the time when many realise that the ability to be a good parent — beyond the basic instinct to protect — is not inborn.