A middle aged woman in Nandi County is a living testimony that indeed negative ethnicity can be very tormenting. The 43 year old Selina Cheptum from Ainapng’etuny village is blaming her broken marriage to the 1992 ethnic violence that saw her dumped by the man she called husband. Whenever she hears of ethnicity, her heart bleeds for the country. And As Elvis Kosgey reports, the last 24 years have been a nightmare for she has not set her eyes on her three children.