Hi Dr Cupid,

I was having a conversation with my girlfriend and she sort of hinted that her ex was well hung and it has been really bothering me.

I am not insecure about manhood, but finding that out has left me wondering if I measure up to her ex.

I know I shouldn’t obsess about it, but I can’t help it. How do I get over it?

Peter, Homa Bay

Peter,

The size of one’s manhood doesn’t define his sexual ability.

Good sex is not about ‘ploughing’ and ‘ploughing’ like a savage whose life depends on it.

Precision is key.

You are wasting your time worrying about your small spear.