I am dating three different men because I find each good in their own way, and my friends are telling me it is wrong.
I have not told any of the men about the others. But they all know I am not in an exclusive relationship with any of them. I do not want to settle down without first weighing all my options. I don’t want to leave any of them, kindly advise how I can go about this. Cathy, Nairobi
What you are doing is what I like to call ‘shopping’, but once you decide on one you need to let the others go. Because this arrangement can be so dangerous, they will kill each other or kill you. Or you might catch a disease.
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