Well, it’s said you have to meet many frogs before you meet your prince charming. At times we as ladies know what we want in a man but we settle for less which should not happen. Before you even think of settling for him, you need to avoid some men especially on a first date. If he appears to be like the types I will mention below, that is a red flag and run for your life sister!
Ex-feminist man- this type of man has beef with women who fight for their rights, own their own companies, drive big cars than him and always thinks that the woman should be below him at all times. He is the type of man that gets intimidated by your efforts and he can go all the way to United States of America to study PhD because you have one! He believes that a woman is more of giving birth and cleaning only. He sees a woman very irrelevant in important issues raised. Keep off this type of man, doom shall follow you!
Lazy man- this man is just so lazy and he knows well when it comes to dating somebody, you have to put efforts but he never bothers. He will invite you his house which is dark and full of unwashed dishes, stinky minky clothes and asks you to clean them up as he watches football. Once he finishes watching the match, he knows how to get all heated up for some romance. Girl? Don’t give him a piece of you neither wash his uncleaned messy bedsitter. He is not worth it.
The lady’s man- for him he can date any woman any season. He has this pride that has overtaken the famous peacock. All ladies are on his case; they fight in their wigs because of him and can break each other’s heels just because of him. The same man is playing around with other women. Your heart will be broken into fifty shades of pieces and you won’t know where to start.
Cut-rate man- this man invites you for the first date in an unusual place .i.e. kibanda or a very cheap hotel and you have dressed up to go to an executive place. This type of man will confidently rub it on your face to split the bill. What you ate there is something quite affordable for him. Why split the bill? Be confident enough to walk away from such a guy at that date! He will squeeze your financial space. Ladies, it’s simple as this; don’t entertain a man that can’t afford where your folks take you. Why entertain a man to take you to a kichochoro kibanda and your folks take you to garden city, pizza inn and the list is endless.
Mom’s boy – they appear to be very handsome and cute but he listens to the mother more. Even when the mother calls him in the middle of night to keep her company, he will leave in the house alone. He is the type that will call the mother and gossip about his date and she is there. The mother can ask to talk to you and question your intentions with the son. Woman, just take off after that date or else the mother will be sleeping in your matrimonial bed with your fiancé or hubby in the coming future.