I have been with my husband for 5 years. After having two children and dealing with weight issues this past year, my body has definitely changed.
My husband tells me he loves me, but he is no longer attracted to my physical appearance. I am upset and wondering how we can make our marriage work if he is not attracted to me.
Our sex life will never be the same after this. Please advise how I can handle this stressful situation.
Miriam, Nairobi
Dear Miriam,
Sit him down and let him know love is not all about physical appearance. Let him know he is being selfish by telling you about your weight.
He must learn to love you unconditionally.