Dating was an alien concept to Boomers and Gen Xers. Today, communities that still practice arranged marriages are viewed with feigned disdain.
When Nancy Akoth met her husband in 2010, she did not know he was married, nor were there any signs to indicate he had another relationship
Relationships
By Maria Nyambane Apr. 20, 2024
The courage to approach another human is exactly what every woman needs to traverse the dating world
Relationships
By Awuor Omino Apr. 19, 2024
The answer, as with most things in love, is far more nuanced than a simple yes or no
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By Eve Waruingi Apr. 17, 2024
I’m currently in a long-distance relationship because my husband’s working abroad. And we’re struggling! How can we get things to work better?
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By Chris Hart Apr. 13, 2024
I think my boyfriend might be the love of my life. But I’m still full of doubts! He’s a genuinely good guy and there’s nothing wrong, but I can’t relax. How do I get to feel truly sure about him?
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By Chris Hart Apr. 11, 2024
I thought men were always up for it, but after being passionate early in our relationship, my husband never starts anything anymore. What could be wrong?
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By Chris Hart Apr. 10, 2024
There is this man at work who makes me go weak at the knees. And I am certain he is not just a smooth talker, he is for real. Or am I being taken for a ride?
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By Chris Hart Apr. 6, 2024
Being single can be a great thing. You can do what you want, and come and go as you please, but it can get pretty lonely too
Relationships
By Esther Muchene Mar. 21, 2024
Men go and stay where there’s peace. Well, this is a lie we’ve been told since time immemorial. Maybe it worked in the days of our old fathers and their beautiful wives
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By Diana Makokha Mar. 20, 2024
I have been in a casual intimate relationship with a nice man for a while, and to be honest, I have started to want more. But I am pretty sure he won’t agree. What should I do?
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By Chris Hart Mar. 16, 2024
Taking an ex back more than once is a mistake. Even once is stretching it a little too far because your relationship failed for a reason and you know in your heart that it cannot be fixed
Relationships
By La Patrona Mar. 15, 2024
Almost every woman has a person who is not their boyfriend but their relationship is something close to what romantic relationships are
Relationships
By La Patrona Mar. 13, 2024
Life takes a different shape, form, and direction. Several relationships that started well have failed because of the inability of one spouse to adjust to the changes of the other
Relationships
By Awuor Omino Mar. 12, 2024
I thought I knew how men and women behave in the dating game. But things seem far more complicated in real life than in films and books! Help me figure out what is going on!
Living
By Chris Hart Mar. 9, 2024
It feels like the internet is the only way to find a date. But I am not having much success online. The trouble is I have also never really learned how to meet men the traditional way. Tips please!
Relationships
By Chris Hart Mar. 9, 2024
A friend at work is having an affair. I feel I should say something, but I am close to both husband and wife and do not know how to be loyal to one without betraying the other
Relationships
By Chris Hart Mar. 2, 2024
The modern woman is once again at a crossroads. She is liberated, intelligent and independent, but afraid to ask a man out
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By Awuor Omino Feb. 29, 2024
The healing process may not be easy, but with the right tips, you can regain your inner happiness after a heartbreak
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By Eve Writer Feb. 28, 2024
Consent is the cornerstone of healthy and fulfilling intimacy. It ensures that every encounter is a deliberate choice, free from coercion or manipulation
Relationships
By Eve Waruingi Feb. 27, 2024
In the fast-paced world of modern dating, there is a growing trend causing emotional turmoil for many - benching
Relationships
By Esther Muchene Feb. 27, 2024
I have been happily married for some time now, but no one could describe our relationship as passionate! How can we up our game in the bedroom before it is too late?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Feb. 24, 2024
I think my daughter is being bullied online. She is suddenly more anxious and secretive, and won’t let me near her phone. What do I do?
Parenting
By Chris Hart Feb. 24, 2024
Everyone longs to have a great lover, but the bigger question is what kind of lover are you? Do you give what you expect from your partner?
Jealousy is very harmful to relationships. Films sometimes romanticize it, but in real life, the effects aren't as pleasant as they are portrayed
Relationships
By Esther Muchene Feb. 21, 2024
Do you have the feeling that your partner always spends too much time at your house? And barely contributes to dates or outings? You could be dating a hobosexual
Relationships
By Lolita Bunde Feb. 21, 2024
Several of my friends have divorced, even though I thought they had everything going for them. Why do couples split up so much these days? How can I avoid their problems?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Feb. 17, 2024
Village and city people get the same education, they get the same world exposure through the internet, and the days of promising village girls a trip to the city so they could soften up, are over!
The digital era has changed love and relationships and dating is no longer a serious matter as some would think    
Relationships
By Peter Muiruri Feb. 10, 2024
Romantic love weaves complex stories of passion, connection and often obsession. Obsessive love is where the line between devotion and fixation blurs
Living
By Eve Waruingi Feb. 9, 2024
Being single can be a great thing. You can do what you want, come and go as you please, but it can get pretty lonely during the month of love
I get along well with everyone at work but struggle at home. And so my husband and I are forever arguing! Why can’t I do as well in my marriage as I do at my job?
Living
By Chris Hart Feb. 3, 2024
I fall in love very easily, but all too often I try to love a man who doesn't love me in return. Maybe he's too self-centred, or impulsively angry, or unfaithful. Why am I so unlucky?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Feb. 3, 2024
I have teenage children and sometimes it feels like all they think about is dating. I want them to concentrate on their schoolwork, but they don't listen. Do you have any suggestions?
Parenting
By Chris Hart Feb. 2, 2024
Because religion shapes so many things in society, we cannot ignore this aspect in relationships. It shapes how we think about certain issues, what we do and our outlook in general.
Living
By Eve Writer Dec. 27, 2023
Knowing what to share and not is crucial when it comes to communication in a marriage or relationship. As much as honesty is a good thing, it can be a double-edged sword
I fantasise a lot about this man at work! Would it be so awful if I had a no-commitment relationship with him? It would make my home life more bearable
Relationships
By Chris Hart Nov. 30, 2023
Dating is not for the faint-hearted. It needs time. Sacrifice. Bravery and a whole load of adjectives because of the anxiety and passion that comes with it
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By Diana Makokha Nov. 24, 2023
Social interactions do not owe recognition to whatever title or education a woman may have. Human relationships still consider a woman primarily in terms of her beauty
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By Awuor Omino Nov. 23, 2023
I don’t feel connected to my husband anymore. We used to talk all the time, but nowadays whole days can go by without a loving word or touch. How can I put things right?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Nov. 21, 2023
Men are naturally givers or providers, and if they love, they won't find it hard to give and spend gifts with and on their partners
Living
By Diana Makokha Nov. 17, 2023
Never in the course of human existence has dating been more calculated than today, with players aiming daggers at one another for self-defence
Relationships
By Awuor Omino Nov. 17, 2023
Do you have the feeling that your partner always spends too much time at your house? And barely contributes to dates or outings? You could be dating a hobosexual
Living
By Lolita Bunde Nov. 16, 2023
Is bro/girl code a selfish unspoken code that deprives people of a potentially happily-ever-after life with people they may love?
Relationships
By Diana Makokha Nov. 16, 2023
I’ve got to the point in my life where I’d like to be dating serious men. But I never seem to meet the sort of men who I could even imagine liking, let alone be serious with
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By Chris Hart Nov. 15, 2023
There are girl/bro code rules that give guidelines on boundaries we are supposed to observe in the dating field. Should we really follow them?
Relationships
By Diana Makokha Nov. 8, 2023
My husband and I have started arguing about how much sex we should be having. And it’s me who wants to have more! Is that weird?
My latest boyfriend is a lot of work. He’s forever rushing around, hugely emotional, and always wants to be the centre of attention. Will he ever change?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Nov. 7, 2023
To think that there's another man out there who knows your wife and spends more time with her than you do is something no man wants to imagine
Relationships
By Diana Makokha Nov. 3, 2023
Modern developments have caused changes that have largely conferred advantage to women more than men in the dating scene
Living
By Urban Roulette Oct. 27, 2023