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Dating

We were arguing in the office the other day about how often celebrity relationships seem to fall apart. Are they just awful people? Or can we learn something from their difficulties?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 4, 2025
Rather than ghosting someone outright, the slow fade sees texts grow sparse, plans vanish and emotional investment ebb, until the connection quietly dies
Relationships
By Ann Wairimu Oct. 17, 2025
From time to time, everyone gets so angry that they think unkind thoughts about their partner. But you should worry if your thoughts are motivated by fear rather than anger
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 14, 2025
Kenyan women can be fascinating, especially on a first date. Some may come across as overly ambitious, expecting instant commitment, while others seem angelic
If you want a peaceful, lasting marriage, the kind of marriage you look forward to at the end of a day to see your partner, women must wait for thirty
Living
By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki Sep. 26, 2025
Marriage is not a one-time vow but a daily choice, one that calls for intention, care and connection. Here are practical ways to keep your relationship strong and deeply rooted
Although you do need a certain amount of life experience to build maturity, it’s mostly a learned skill
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 16, 2025
When you see a couple who have separated or are undergoing divorce sharing a hearty moment, take a deep breath. In love, as it is in war, all is fair
Sometimes I’m too tired, I have things to do, or I’m just not in the mood. But saying no is hard! I worry that I’m hurting my husband when I say no. How can I say no and still feel close to him?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 3, 2025
I always feel really awkward when I first start kissing a new boyfriend, and things often go wrong as a result. What can I do to overcome these feelings and enjoy making out more?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 2, 2025
I can’t help feeling that my husband and I are growing apart. We don't talk as much as we used to and every romantic moment is ruined by someone reaching for their phone. How do we rekindle the flame?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 26, 2025
The man in your life has a new glow, altered routines and is acting guarded. While you may have heard of a 'mumama'and joked about it, you now wonder if he's involved with one
Living
By Timo Muthuri Aug. 15, 2025
“What are you bringing to the table?” is the question. In such a scenario, relationships will struggle because life is lived forward in seasons and understood backwards in its entirety
I expected there to be a lot of compromise in my marriage. However, I’m starting to feel like I’m giving up too much. Are there any things I should never compromise on?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 13, 2025
My husband just won’t talk about his feelings. He doesn’t recognise mine either! It’s really getting to me. He’s a great husband in every other way, so how can I resolve this issue?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 12, 2025
Kissing helps a woman decide whether he has the confidence to be a good lover
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 29, 2025
Be positive whatever you’re discussing, and remember that misunderstandings are more common online than in real life
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 22, 2025
Behind the carefully curated dates and late-night texts lies a quiet burden: the pressure to hold it all together to nurture, to fix, to soften. It’s a role that experts now call man-keeping
Relationships
By Eve Waruingi Jul. 12, 2025
Kenya’s dating scene is anything but boring and when it comes to online platforms, it’s a full-blown safari of personalities! From smooth-talking schemers to shy sweethearts
Relationships
By Silas Nyamweya Jul. 11, 2025
The behaviours that indicate you’re interested in a guy are generated by your subconscious, so they’re quite genuine, especially if you’re shy and find it difficult to express your feelings
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 8, 2025
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a long time. But something’s not quite right. There’s nothing obvious like mistrust or arguments, but I sense there’s trouble ahead. Why do I feel this way?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 1, 2025
A long, fulfilling marriage is not defined by love; it is defined by the union of two lives that have become one
I thought my friends were the perfect couple. So I was completely taken aback when they broke up after being together for so many years. Why do seemingly stable relationships suddenly collapse?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jun. 20, 2025
Everyone says the internet is the best place to find a date, but I’ve only had bad experiences with the men I’ve met online. So, I’d like to start meeting people in real life. Where do I begin?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jun. 7, 2025
A generic profile filled with clichés such as 'I love to laugh' or 'I'm just seeing what happens' won't help you stand out or attract meaningful connections
Relationships
By Timo Muthuri Jun. 4, 2025
I’ve had several longish relationships, but they’ve all run into difficulties. Am I just unlucky, or are men much more difficult to cope with these days?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jun. 3, 2025
We were arguing in the office the other day about how often celebrity relationships seem to fall apart. Are they just awful people? Or can we learn something from their difficulties?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Dec. 4, 2025
Rather than ghosting someone outright, the slow fade sees texts grow sparse, plans vanish and emotional investment ebb, until the connection quietly dies
Relationships
By Ann Wairimu Oct. 17, 2025
From time to time, everyone gets so angry that they think unkind thoughts about their partner. But you should worry if your thoughts are motivated by fear rather than anger
Relationships
By Chris Hart Oct. 14, 2025
Kenyan women can be fascinating, especially on a first date. Some may come across as overly ambitious, expecting instant commitment, while others seem angelic
If you want a peaceful, lasting marriage, the kind of marriage you look forward to at the end of a day to see your partner, women must wait for thirty
Living
By Ciku Kimani-Mwaniki Sep. 26, 2025
Marriage is not a one-time vow but a daily choice, one that calls for intention, care and connection. Here are practical ways to keep your relationship strong and deeply rooted
Although you do need a certain amount of life experience to build maturity, it’s mostly a learned skill
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 16, 2025
When you see a couple who have separated or are undergoing divorce sharing a hearty moment, take a deep breath. In love, as it is in war, all is fair
Sometimes I’m too tired, I have things to do, or I’m just not in the mood. But saying no is hard! I worry that I’m hurting my husband when I say no. How can I say no and still feel close to him?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 3, 2025
I always feel really awkward when I first start kissing a new boyfriend, and things often go wrong as a result. What can I do to overcome these feelings and enjoy making out more?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Sep. 2, 2025
I can’t help feeling that my husband and I are growing apart. We don't talk as much as we used to and every romantic moment is ruined by someone reaching for their phone. How do we rekindle the flame?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 26, 2025
The man in your life has a new glow, altered routines and is acting guarded. While you may have heard of a 'mumama'and joked about it, you now wonder if he's involved with one
Living
By Timo Muthuri Aug. 15, 2025
“What are you bringing to the table?” is the question. In such a scenario, relationships will struggle because life is lived forward in seasons and understood backwards in its entirety
I expected there to be a lot of compromise in my marriage. However, I’m starting to feel like I’m giving up too much. Are there any things I should never compromise on?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 13, 2025
My husband just won’t talk about his feelings. He doesn’t recognise mine either! It’s really getting to me. He’s a great husband in every other way, so how can I resolve this issue?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Aug. 12, 2025
Kissing helps a woman decide whether he has the confidence to be a good lover
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 29, 2025
Be positive whatever you’re discussing, and remember that misunderstandings are more common online than in real life
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 22, 2025
Behind the carefully curated dates and late-night texts lies a quiet burden: the pressure to hold it all together to nurture, to fix, to soften. It’s a role that experts now call man-keeping
Relationships
By Eve Waruingi Jul. 12, 2025
Kenya’s dating scene is anything but boring and when it comes to online platforms, it’s a full-blown safari of personalities! From smooth-talking schemers to shy sweethearts
Relationships
By Silas Nyamweya Jul. 11, 2025
The behaviours that indicate you’re interested in a guy are generated by your subconscious, so they’re quite genuine, especially if you’re shy and find it difficult to express your feelings
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 8, 2025
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a long time. But something’s not quite right. There’s nothing obvious like mistrust or arguments, but I sense there’s trouble ahead. Why do I feel this way?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jul. 1, 2025
A long, fulfilling marriage is not defined by love; it is defined by the union of two lives that have become one
I thought my friends were the perfect couple. So I was completely taken aback when they broke up after being together for so many years. Why do seemingly stable relationships suddenly collapse?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jun. 20, 2025
Everyone says the internet is the best place to find a date, but I’ve only had bad experiences with the men I’ve met online. So, I’d like to start meeting people in real life. Where do I begin?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jun. 7, 2025
A generic profile filled with clichés such as 'I love to laugh' or 'I'm just seeing what happens' won't help you stand out or attract meaningful connections
Relationships
By Timo Muthuri Jun. 4, 2025
I’ve had several longish relationships, but they’ve all run into difficulties. Am I just unlucky, or are men much more difficult to cope with these days?
Relationships
By Chris Hart Jun. 3, 2025