Getting married is a big step, so it's only natural to feel hesitant - and even a bit sweaty - when you're proposing.
A survey has found that 59% of men feel nervous at the prospect of proposing to their partner, with 15% admitting that the thought made them break out in a cold sweat.
And who could blame them, when nearly 1 in 4 women has rejected AT LEAST one proposal in her lifetime.
The study, commissioned by travel firm SuperBreak, revealed that 37% of women have received at least two proposals in their lifetime, with 12% being asked for their hand in marriage three times.
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Even more surprising, one in 20 had heard the words "will you marry me?" four times or more.
Why didn't they accept?
Almost one third (29%) of women would turn down their partner just on the basis of the proposal itself being poor. So, if you're planning on proposing this Valentine's Day , you'd better make it a good one.
Top 10 reasons for turning down a marriage proposal
1. I wasn't certain they were the one
2. It just didn't feel right
3. I don't/didn't want to get married
4. It didn't feel like they meant it
5. I didn't think we'd been in a relationship long enough
6. We'd already split up and they were trying to win me back
7. I was worried about what other people would think
8. I didn't think we could afford it
9. I thought it was a joke
10. I didn't think my partner was taking it seriously enough
What DO women want?
While the majority of women are romantics, with 52% wanting the traditional 'down on one knee' proposal, 20% would like an 'all-singing, all-dancing' proposal.
Another 15% would prefer a proposal which is slightly more unusual and unique to them.
Where are the most popular places to propose?
The study found the most romantic destinations for proposing to a partner are Paris, Venice and Rome.
For those looking to propose closer to home; the Lake District was deemed most popular, with Scottish locations also being rated highly.