As parents, we might unintentionally make our children's lives so simple that they don't put any effort into anything they do, which could be a problem in future
By Elvinah Obuya Oct. 28, 2022
Teenage and early adulthood are absolutely challenging stages of development. At this point, young people thrive more on imagination than reality
By Elvinah Obuya Apr. 7, 2023
A woman had managed to string along two men until the fateful day when they both met in her house
By Elvinah Obuya Jan. 20, 2023
Many young couples imagine life will take place only between the sheets when they envision a wonderful life together
By Elvinah Obuya Feb. 17, 2023
If you are single and probably still searching for the right man, here are the types of men you are likely to date before settling for the one
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 2, 2023
The fact that statistics of divorce among the elitist niche indicate rising figures puts to question the effectiveness of the profession in achieving the intended results
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 16, 2023
As maturity sets in, our priorities begin to shift and an otherwise submissive wife would suddenly wade into the pressures of wanting to be in charge. What do you do then?
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 21, 2023
When the girls stay sane, the boys and men have more time to mature and be well-ripened to take on family roles at the right time
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 23, 2023
Long before the boys know their gender, most girls are already selecting imaginary wedding gowns in their young minds and waiting for prince charming
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 31, 2023
Women pick and choose our men based on instant comfort. This is, however, something we will continue to deny publicly but practice privately
By Elvinah Obuya May. 30, 2023
Times have changed and so have relationship expectations. Men are struggling to adjust to the new social terrain of intersexual dynamics and gender power distribution
By Elvinah Obuya Jun. 16, 2023
One's upbringing is what constitutes their perception of life including how one treats a spouse or expects to be treated
By Elvinah Obuya Jul. 11, 2023
The unmarried are sick of being single, while the married are sick of marriage. As a result, there is a steady flow of people walking to and from marriage
By Elvinah Obuya Jul. 18, 2023
With perceptions like: "Mimi siwezi olewa na msee hana doh." I worry that the current generation's perception of marriage is very skewed
By Elvinah Obuya Aug. 8, 2023
There is a joke about what men want in a relationship compared to an endless list of things and qualities that women want in a man
By Elvinah Obuya Aug. 11, 2023
The ability to suffer in silence was an admirable quality that every mother instilled in her daughters before marriage. But is this the true meaning of marriage?
By Elvinah Obuya Aug. 18, 2023
It is a good thing to educate one's wife. The argument is that the decision should be based on solid risk assessment including a proven commitment on the part of the woman
By Elvinah Obuya Sep. 8, 2023
While it's common knowledge that humans all have varied tastes, our men are failing to put this into consideration when it comes to loving women
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 3, 2023
It is an undeniable fact that women make the world go round. Actually, in all fairness to our men, each species depends on its female folk to ensure continuity
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 17, 2023
Everyone needs to be held, that's why women find Ben 10s and gym instructors for it while men go for younger babes or side chics
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 24, 2023
If a man is willing to pay dowry, then let it be accepted. If he is not willing, and the woman is content to marry him, then let her proceed. Do you agree?
By Elvinah Obuya Jun. 9, 2023
Apart from the "widow" label, a woman whose husband has passed away craves a sense of connection with a man for completeness
By Elvinah Obuya Jun. 20, 2023
We enter all ventures in life with the end in mind, but it is funny how at the beginning of a relationship, we never really fathom the ending
By Elvinah Obuya Jun. 27, 2023
Our mums trained us the way to a man's heart is the stomach. However, if a man paraded women he dated, we would wonder what his taste is
By Elvinah Obuya Jul. 6, 2023
A girl that starts off as a malnourished child with a protruding belly and flimsy hair can blossom into the most gorgeous woman
By Elvinah Obuya Jul. 25, 2023
Wise women have learnt to praise their husbands; they will call them endearing names even after a mediocre performance
By Elvinah Obuya Jul. 28, 2023
Girls who have no children have a high market value because they are perceived to be the new versions of pure
By Elvinah Obuya Aug. 25, 2023
We are a species focused on beauty at all costs
By Elvinah Obuya May. 13, 2024
We now boast of an almost equal command in the corporate spaces as men. The dream of the girl child is finally here. But are we there yet?
By Elvinah Obuya Mar. 10, 2023
When a child has to work to raise funds to help to fend for the family, it is a case of abuse whose eventual outcome is likely to be costly because it breeds bitterness
By Elvinah Obuya Apr. 7, 2023
Like a graph with two contrasting variables, men and women despite being attached like Siamese twins on the hip are bound to live in natural conflict throughout
By Elvinah Obuya Jul. 14, 2023
As age creeps in, so do lifestyle diseases that may result from our reckless lifestyles. We realise when it is too late that the paths we took were fun but not necessarily the best ones
By Elvinah Obuya Jul. 21, 2023
We may delete our pages and recall messages that we sent previously but just a screenshot is enough to do the damage
By Elvinah Obuya Sep. 5, 2023