By Donna Onyango
Every couple is bound to have a fight once in a while because conflict is inevitable in a relationship.
Some fights are small and the couple settles the issue fast, while others are so major the man turns the woman into a punching bag.
The woman cries bitterly and regrets why she ever fell in love with such a beast.
To pour her heart out, a woman may call her close confidants like her mother and girlfriends.
There are many reasons that can spur such a major fight, for instance, meddling from in-laws or if the man has failed to meet his financial obligations.
A fight may also be sparked if the woman suspects that the man is cheating on her.
The interesting thing about such major fights is how they sometimes end.
Picture this: One minute a woman is fuming and cursing, then the man hits her and she is inconsolable.
When the man sees the woman in her vulnerable state, his heart melts and he showers her with kisses to calm her. The woman becomes confused because of the man’s sudden lovey-dovey reaction.
The kisses may turn off the woman because she is still hurting, but the man is aroused all the same.
The man finds the woman so irresistible he wants to make love after creating war.
Irresistible
To a man, when he hits you and you start crying, your innocence and vulnerability sexually arouse him.
As the woman cries, the man finds her sexier and irresistible.
The messy hair may look wild and unattractive, but to him it’s sexually appealing.
At first, the woman may try to resist her man’s sexual advances, but slowly she may give in.
As a woman, much as you are hurting at that moment, it is always good to go with the flow.
Doing so does not mean that you are admitting you were on the wrong, but it is letting go of the pain and enjoying the moment.
Making love after a quarrel is so powerful and memorable it could give your relationship that extra fire.
You may assume that after doing it, you will be forced to bury the issue that had caused you to fight under the carpet.
Actually, it may soften your hearts so that you tackle the contentious issues more amicably.
