You have probably had that moment in life when you questioned your girlfriend's loyalty, with regards to your man. It might have been a comment from her about your relationship that got you questioning if you really made the right choice in a partner, or it could be how she behaves whenever he is around and that leaves you feeling uncomfortable. We trust our female friends, hold them in high esteem, and even share details of our relationship with them, but could she be a hungry hunter on the prowl? Here are signs to guide you;
1. She suddenly gets too nice when your man is around. Let us call her Suna. Now Suna rarely comes over to your place, almost never asks if you guys can hang out. But suddenly when your man is around, she makes herself the host at your house. She volunteers to prepare dinner for the three of you, takes charge of activities and the conversation. As soon as your man's visit is over, she goes back to the hole she normally hides in. Be very careful of such a friend, she is a 'Fisi' on the prowl.
2. She pays extra attention to her looks. In this case, Suna is probably your roommate. On any other day she is normally laid back, unless she is going out. The stockings don't leave her head even when her boyfriend comes over, but wait until you notify her of your boyfriend's visit; an extreme makeover unfolds right before your eyes! Girl, keep your man away, your friend is definitely hungry for his attention.
3. She often asks about him. You are tired of answering questions about your boyfriend and your relationship. It is always about him. 'How your man is doing? What he has been up to? I heard he bought himself a new car?’ She will ask, question after the other. You will patiently wait for her to finally ask you how you are doing, but that will only happen after she is done updating her mental files on your man.
4. She has his phone number. Now this applies only where Suna and your boyfriend are not friends, have never communicated (at least to your knowledge), and she has never asked you for his phone number. You should be curious when you find out that apparently your girlfriend who totally has 'no interest' and 'never communicates' to your boyfriend has is phone number without any of them letting you know of an interaction at any time!
5. Her mood and attitude suddenly change anytime you mention him. This is not to certify that you keep talking about your man to your girlfriends, it can get quite uninteresting and distressing. They probably don't care about him. But if once in a while when you mention something your boyfriend has achieved or done for you, Suna experiences a complete change of mood, and then she is jealous. No question about it. You were probably planning to hang out together but suddenly she doesn't want to, stay on the lookout.
Once in a while your friends might display these signs, and it wouldn't necessarily mean that they want your man, but if it happens frequently, it is time to decide who you would rather keep, your man, or your fake friends?
