You know that saying which guys have that goes
like ‘Bros before hoes?’ This means that most of the times, guys
will choose their friends over the ladies. If for example your boyfriend’s
friend saw you hanging out with another guy, they’d totally tell on you.
Now, back to the ladies, do you really have your
girlfriends back or do you just sit there and watch, laugh and be jealous. If
you have a friend who has a boyfriend, and that guy tries to hit on you, do you
tell your friend or do you just keep quiet and enjoy the moment?
There is a certain lady who posted on social
media how her friend’s boyfriend tried to hit on her, he was even offering
money for her to be with him. My first thought was, obviously that guy is a
jerk. Second thought was that that chick is not loyal. She is not loyal to her
own ‘good friend’ as she put it. You can’t keep that to yourself. I mean, do
you just sit down and watch your friend fall helplessly in love with a jerk?
She complained of how the situation was awkward
since they hang out together and I’m like; who’s making it awkward? If she had
told her friend who that guy really was, she would not be in that position. She
also felt offended, by the fact that the guy was offering money. Yes it’s
offensive, she is not a whore; but what did she do about it? I’m starting to
think it’s the way she presented herself that made that guy offer her money. If
she was offended, she would have put him off and tell her very good friend about
it. Instead, she kept quiet and updated your status because she thought she was
special. Ladies, do you really think you are special than your friend, or
beautiful, or even better?
I think ladies should have each other’s back.
You shouldn’t sit and watch you friend(s) date men that will still hurt them.
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