As a freshman, I had hopes of dating beautiful ladies as those I had seen in Hollywood films. I had perceived that dating in university was such fun since there wouldn't be any restrictions.

During admission day, I met this beautiful lady, so beautiful I can say like the Queen of England. We had a chat and later invited me to her room the following night. I was excited since it was my first date since I finished form four.

At around 6.00 p.m the following day, I was already ready waiting for the right time. I arrived at her hostel room in my best clothes, got welcomed in and I sat on a bed since most university hostels have beds only.

I was shy, clueless of what to say and at the same time excited. We had a lot knowing each other until all that I was left to say was I LOVE YOU. Seriously these three words have power they can make you weak to pronounce, weak in heart since at that moment it is not your brain talking but your heart talking to another person's heart and brain.

I had this weird thought, I didn't have to say I loved her instead I gave money and it worked miracles. She fell into my trap which made her love me and we had sex that night.

Since that day I realized this, in campus if you have no money you won't experience sex and love. Love and sex are bought in our universities. There are several things we men do that justify we have money; to win that beautiful lady we have to dress smart since your dress code defines you, furnishing our houses with all kind of electronics so that when she pays you a visit she wouldn't want to leave.

Actually we go through a lot just to win the girl's heart and you can't win her without money. Therefore my fellow freshman, if you want love and sex, first make money and stop thinking of true love. Have money and she won't leave you for a sponsor. Be her sponsor, take her for refreshments, buy her that expensive weave, take her to five star hotel and own her heart.