In the 21st century, the internet is readily available at our doorsteps making it easier for pornography to find its way without constraints. Today, porn is more popular among youth than it was 10 years ago. This has tremendously affected marriages and led to uncontrolled porn addictions.
There are things that happen to you when you watch too much porn that you might realise only when you stop:
You blame your spouse
Watching porn raises demands during sex. If these demands are not met you subject your partner to criticism, breaking your emotional connection.
Decreases affection
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Too much porn decreases attraction to your partner - you start seeing them as boring and monotonous. You feel unsatisfied.
Makes you a bad lover
The scenes and acts in porn movies are based on feigned feelings – porn on screen is like acting. The actors use stimulators to help them ‘last longer’. It is not the case when these individuals don’t use these stimulants.
Premature ejaculation
A recent study revealed youth who were exposed to porn in their earlier years suffer from erectile dysfunctions. Premature ejaculation is one of the side effects of pornography addiction.
Hampers libido
Your libido reduces constantly as your energy is driven by your own self-satisfaction. Porn continuously reduces your sex drive and your libido declines evenly as you watch more watch porn.
You crave for extreme acts
Hardcore acts in porn movies will make you desire them not knowing that they are not real life.
You become selfish
The performers in porn videos characterize men self-centered beings, you can unconsciously adopt this attitude when making love to your spouse.
Sex becomes a play
You will always try to reach the standards set by porn videos and make them performances rather than connections at an intimate level.
Reduced response
People who watch porn require more stimulation in order to get in the mood compared to those who do not.
Sex turns into masturbation
Porn creates a feeling that your partner is worthless – You start to think it’s better to quench your own ‘thirst’.
Porn degrades women
Porn portrays women as slaves and objects that satisfy men’s sexual fantasies.
It will spoil your relationship
After criticizing your partner, raising your standards and being selfish, be sure your relationship will hit rock bottom.