You want a partner who is passionate, ambitious and responsible. One who is progressive in his career path, not retrogressive. You get one with all these characteristics, but alas! He doesn’t have time for you. How do you know that you are dating a workaholic? Here’s how:
Check their closet: Most of their clothes are official. There are very few casual wear items. This means your partner spends most of his time at official events.
Let’s schedule that up: That is a common phrase you will hear from a workaholic. They like to schedule things in advance. They are strict time keepers and get really offended when made to wait. Do not expect random Sunday afternoon getaways with this kind of a person. If it is not scheduled, then it is not going to happen.
Do they have Wi-Fi? Your partner is so obsessed with work they can hardly remain offline for long. When you plan on going to a nice place for dinner, they call in advance to ask them if they have fast enough Wi-Fi connection. Do not be surprised when, in the middle of the date, they have to respond to an “important email” — it has nothing to do with you.
Your plans are subject to rescheduling: This doesn’t mean they do not want to see you. No, something must have come up at work that really needs their attention.
They monetise everything: Small talk is also gradually turned into work talk, and eventually how much one stands to gain from doing one thing or the other.
Always on their phone: It has been an ongoing battle to try and separate this person from their phone or tablet. There is always something really ‘important’ that needs their attention.
