5 ways to have a peaceful break-up

Of all the stuff that occurs in a relationship, break ups are the worst. Besides being saddening, the split itself could have negative effects on the two parties involved. This is why you should have a workable plan in mind on how you intend to make him/her go away calmly without getting hurt.

1. Do it over the phone: some people may argue that this is childish and somehow immature. Taking your phone and calling her/him and politely informing them of the decision you have made is so easy. He/she may ask lots of questions during the conversation but..hey!  Keep your head straight and stick to your decision.

2. Do it over social media site: done by Ne-Yo and confirmed to be true, social media sites like Facebook, WhatsApp provide a better platform to inform your lover that things isn’t going well between the two of you and it’s time to call it quits. Here, you can inbox the person you intend to part ways with. Don't do such stuff on Twitter because twitter is a news channel. I repeat ...don't do it on Twitter!!

3. Set up a meeting place: this is very perfect for guys who feel like their cheating girlfriends need an open-air kind of revelation. A guy should set up a place where he intends to let things break loose. Before you do this, ensure that you still show her the same old love  because she might sense something wrong is about to happen. You can do this in a coffee shop, shopping mall or any recreational facility.

4. Start showing her/him less affection in everything the two of you do. Carefully analyse your surrounding and become a less participator in what the two of you regularly engage in. This is a withdrawal affair and eventually he/she will back off!

5. Make an arrangement to have him/her busted: this is simple. First, you need a guy (if you are a man) or a girl (if you are a lady) you really trust and your GF or BF has never seen and heard of.  This is how it works: the lady together with her female friend comes up with a plan. The female friend will have to meet the lady's boyfriend and get pushy so as to quickly establish a relationship (a bogus one). The two will have to exchange contacts as usual. The female friend will then have to meet the guy at a strategically known place where the guy’s girlfriend will appear suddenly to bust out the two. Very simple. The guy is busted with another girl who would imply that he was cheating on his lady. Period.