By Getrude Mungai
After years of marriage, sex can become monotonous, almost like eating githeri everyday. It is, therefore, imperative for couples to find ways of spicing up their sex life. Unfortunately, the moment one mentions improvements on this front, most folks tend to think only in terms of positions. When they try and fail in the process, the result can be even more frustrations.
This is particularly so for those with weight challenges and those who are not flexible enough to do kama sutra.
Couples are also too busy chasing the big ‘O’ that they forget about the journey to get there, which should be just as fun and exciting.
Even sex and intimacy needs play, otherwise Dick will be a very dull boy.
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I believe women need at least 20 minutes of foreplay and massage to get properly primed for sex. However, since women’s hands are not as strong as those of men, I encourage them to use their feet. This can be quite effective and exotic.
Making love
Whenever I tell women they can make love with their feet, they respond in disbelief. Yet there are great secrets about lovemaking with feet that every woman should know.
For example, did you know there are a sizeable number of men with a foot fetish? Also, are you aware that the big toe is connected to the penis muscles?
These facts are true to majority of men. So if your man has been getting frequent pedicures at the salon, then you should be a worried woman.
We tend to concentrate all our effort on the face at the expense of other areas. While it is great to have a spotless face, it is also vital to have soft, smooth feet. Cracked heels and smelly feet are a big turn off. Imagine scratching him with cracked dry heels at that critical moment?
On the flip side is the blissful experience of having your feet kissed and or toes licked. Believe me, it is one of the greatest feelings in the world.
How many of us are confident enough to let their man’s lips anywhere near their feet without risking giving him mouth disease?