By Lovestruck
Many Kenyan men don’t seem to realise how important a kiss is to a woman, and don’t even bother to invest in mastering the ‘art of kissing’.
So women are forced to bear the brunt of horrible kissing techniques and because we are nice and love our men, we often die in silence.
A kiss is not just a kiss, especially for women. While men use kissing as a prelude to sex or as a way to reconcile, women see it as much more. Men should pay attention to this.
Women often use kissing as a way to assess a man as a potential partner, making that first kiss a make-or-break deal. From one kiss she can tell if her man is gentle, if he is romantic, if he has experience, if he is confident and if he is really interested in her. Once a relationship is established, a woman uses kisses to both maintain intimacy with her partner and run a status check on the state of the relationship or marriage.
Meanwhile, men place much less emphasis on the meaning of a kiss. Because they are far less discriminating than women when it comes to deciding whom to smooch, a kiss doesn’t carry as much hidden meaning.
Bad kisser
In addition, they are more willing to have sex with someone without ever kissing her, as well as to have sex with a woman to whom they are not really attracted.
Even if they think a woman is a bad kisser, they will still have sex with her. Not so for women, who view kissing as a way to bond with a man in the short term and maintain a relationship in the long term.
As a relationship progresses, men tend to mistakenly place less emphasis on kissing.
Men be warned; kissing has become the test which women use to reject men who they feel are not genetically compatible with them. A lot of times men get dumped after the first kiss and they do not understand why.
If you want to have a girlfriend or maintain a good relationship with your wife, please invest in kissing. It carries more weight in the marriage and dating scene today more than ever.
