I had this conversation with my brothers a week ago as to
why men cheat. A lot was said I can't even explain now. But from my personal
and elaborate study, I want to say men cheat because of importance.
From the Bible, men have always been made so important, like
they can do no wrong. Most of what they do is in the right. I mean, look at the
case of Solomon. How many wives and concubines did he have, and yet he was
tagged the wisest man in the Bible.
A scenario like this, and as the world continues to develop
with these mentalities of a man being at the top and can do whatever he
pleases, gives them the right to cheat and honesty get away with it.
If I am to be honest, 95% of men cheat, argue with your
ancestors. Either doing the main act or thinking and planning it in their head
while looking at another woman.
You can say its selfishness, but all of that falls into the
circle of the importance man has been created into.
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Do women cheat too? Absolutely. But ratio to men is very
small because, again, back to the core, women have been seen to be weaker and
lesser vocal when it comes to sex. They have been seen and described never to
be comparable to a man and not have the same right as a man.
So if a man cheats on you, you let it because he has the
right and you don't. That's is why when people talk of feminism, I laugh
because a lot of people do not even know exactly what feminism truly is.
Feminism is not about equality, it’s about importance. The
woman wants to be seen and perceived as important as the man. I rest my case here
because I can go and on for days.