Today we focus on the rise of teenage and unplanned for pregnancies among young people. My concern is driven by the ever- escalating cases of teens getting pregnant.
The rate at which young girls are conceiving when still in "sexual infancy" is alarming. That today pregnancy among young girls isn't shocking is unpalatable to the ears of right thinking members of the society. A number of factors have given rise to this including;
1. Peer pressure; today there's "competition" among ladies on conceiving. It's normal occurrence to hear ladies deriving pleasure and boasting of having babies out of wedlock. This drives their fellows with no evidence to show for their night sweats longing for their own in a bid to conform.
2. Competition; that quality and marriage type men are few compels the ladies to trap their guys with pregnancy with an aim of securing a future- you are out of sense trying to lure someone. Love grows and it's not forced. The moment you are dumped you realise you were just a waste bin to dump his "wastes" be careful.
3. Single mother craze; another confused category are the ladies living in illusion of wanting to be single mums. They opt to be single mothers because of frustration in a past relationship hence develop cold-feet towards marriage and thus; seek sperm donors to sire children. Let me remind you to think before wanting to be a single mum. The questions that child will be asking when seeking identity may be difficult to answer. Think of the stress you will be putting that child when growing up relating to mockery from the friends.
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4. FIDA addicts; this category are like rats. Their interest is on the rich class whom they prey on and get pregnant for only to demand break-up and seek solace in FIDA for reasons of attaching salary. These groups are commonly referred to us "sim card holders" they allow all forms of airtime including bamba mbao. They don't have taste and are shameless.
5. Sexual addicts; this lot are best described as volunteers. They allow every cursor to move in their mouse without minding when, where, how and why. This group won't mind being worked on in dance halls, parties and even cars. To the beautiful ladies, be people with taste and principles. Getting pregnant at an early age spoils your future for close to 2 years, makes you older than your age. Simply put unachapa kama TV ya Greatwall. More importantly be sure of having issues in marriage. Very few men less than 10% will accept you with "his child" you came with. The moment he sires his own, the once source of joy will become a source of problems.
Lastly, let me remind my dear youngsters that ARE in relationships:
Lack of Standards of Operations (SOPs) = Source of Problems (SOPs)
Today we focus on the rise of teenage and unplanned for pregnancies among young people. My concern is driven by the ever- escalating cases of teens getting pregnant.
The rate at which young girls are conceiving when still in "sexual infancy" is alarming. That today pregnancy among young girls isn't shocking is unpalatable to the ears of right thinking members of the society. A number of factors have given rise to this including;
1. Peer pressure; today there's "competition" among ladies on conceiving. It's normal occurrence to hear ladies deriving pleasure and boasting of having babies out of wedlock. This drives their fellows with no evidence to show for their night sweats longing for their own in a bid to conform.
2. Competition; that quality and marriage type men are few compels the ladies to trap their guys with pregnancy with an aim of securing a future- you are out of sense trying to lure someone. Love grows and it's not forced. The moment you are dumped you realise you were just a waste bin to dump his "wastes" be careful.
3. Single mother craze; another confused category are the ladies living in illusion of wanting to be single mums. They opt to be single mothers because of frustration in a past relationship hence develop cold-feet towards marriage and thus; seek sperm donors to sire children. Let me remind you to think before wanting to be a single mum. The questions that child will be asking when seeking identity may be difficult to answer. Think of the stress you will be putting that child when growing up relating to mockery from the friends.
4. FIDA addicts; this category are like rats. Their interest is on the rich class whom they prey on and get pregnant for only to demand break-up and seek solace in FIDA for reasons of attaching salary. These groups are commonly referred to us "sim card holders" they allow all forms of airtime including bamba mbao. They don't have taste and are shameless.
5. Sexual addicts; this lot are best described as volunteers. They allow every cursor to move in their mouse without minding when, where, how and why. This group won't mind being worked on in dance halls, parties and even cars. To the beautiful ladies, be people with taste and principles. Getting pregnant at an early age spoils your future for close to 2 years, makes you older than your age. Simply put unachapa kama TV ya Greatwall. More importantly be sure of having issues in marriage. Very few men less than 10% will accept you with "his child" you came with. The moment he sires his own, the once source of joy will become a source of problems.
Lastly, let me remind my dear youngsters that ARE in relationships:
Lack of Standards of Operations (SOPs) = Source of Problems (SOPs)
