How to attract real love

Ladies I am talking to you. Yes, your friend has a killer body, sexy curves, beautiful face, a charming personality. And you, none of the above. Don't fret. You're a beautiful woman, you have something she definitely doesn't. You are you and nothing can change that.

Yeah the girl on telly looks good with her light skin. And yeah you follow her on Instagram where every dude is singing praises and admiration. And you could be somehow like her, light skin is a hundred bob away from the new sexy you. Anyway some celebrities do skin bleaching why can't you.I get it, i have been there and i have done that.

It's so easy to lose yourself in this social media madness time and age.The trend now could be dreads, and you wouldn't want to be left out. But is it really what you would realistically want. The trend could also be smoking weed,and you couldn't get any more cooler. I mean look at Wiz Khalifa. But is it what you really want.

We all enslave ourselves to this social conformities just to seek acceptance. Acceptance from who? Who's tick of approval do you want from? And is it for your looks or personality? I mean I thought slavery ended, but it looks like we are going through it everyday. It's time to free ourselves from these social chains. We can't go far if we keep dragging ourselves with them on. As the famous Oscar Wilde saying goes "Be yourself everyone else is taken". So be you, the you nobody sees, the you who's happy and comfortable, the you who's authentic and real with all your flaws. And truly you will attract someone real.