Ladies, can you answer calls to your man’s phones? Assuming he was preoccupied and got a text message on his phone, would he let you read it out to him?
If you answered no to these questions, you are in a relationship with a boy, masquerading as a real, grown man. Listen up: Boys lock their phones or hide it when they are around their girlfriends.
A real man doesn’t put a password on his phone and will happily hand it over to his woman on request. If your boyfriend has a password on his phone that you are not privy to, or hides his phone from you, get out of that relationship right now!
It is astonishing that a vast majority of women claim to be happily married or happy in a committed relationship, yet their men keep their phones hidden from them.
How are you happy in a relationship with someone who acts shady with his phone? It is all very simple really; if he is acting shady with his phone, he is without question up to something shady.
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If your boyfriend isn’t doing anything shady on his phone, there’s zero prerogative to try and keep things from you. All that talk about privacy is a bunch of damn BS. Sadly, women are extremely naïve when it comes to the locked phone issue. They don’t say anything when they notice that the men they are dating never leave their phones behind even when they go to the bathroom.
They keep quiet even when they realise that these men will only type in the password when the phone is hidden from her view. These women don’t want to be accused of being snoops. They are afraid they will come across as insecure if they demand to know their men’s phone passwords.
Once you decide to enter into a relationship with someone, there should be full openness with him or her. If a man truly loves and values you, he shouldn’t feel protective over the contents of his phone. If he is wary of you seeing something you wouldn’t like then the two of you shouldn’t be in a relationship. Period!
Phones should serve as a means of communication, not sources of inconsistency regarding someone’s character. It is not only about suspicions of infidelity. His phone is a part of his life. It is a hand held version of his own life. You can tell a lot about him by looking at the likes and interests tailored into his apps. By preventing you from being able to access his phone freely, he is also preventing you from accessing that part of his life.
The truth of the matter in reality is his cell phone is a significant part of his life and when he is secretive about it and he protectively and guardedly restricts you from even glancing at it he is sending you a message that he doesn’t want you to be part of that important part of his life and he is also telling you that he has a lot of sins to hide too.
If you have to lock your phone for other reasons, make sure the woman in your life knows the password. It is such an amazing feeling to be in a relationship with a man who can let you answer his phone calls.
