By Bi Mapenzi

Whatever the cost, a quickie is always worthwhile. They tend to be many when a relationship is starting and then stop as a couple gets deeper into a relationships, or get married.

Why not rekindle your first love by having sex at the shortest time available then smiling all day. For instance, you could be from the shower and are hurrying to prepare and get to work in time, when the man, already in his suit for the day, pulls you close as you attempt to wear a bra.

Even though both of you are running late, he has a desire for sex and unless indulging him puts your job on the line, go for it, finish fast, rush back to the shower, pack your breakfast and  dash to the car. This will be a great start that might leave you smiling all day.

If you live in a small house where you are forced to share the bedroom with your children, you can do it fast anywhere in the room without causing disturbance when the child falls asleep.

Be creative
What if both of you work in town and there is the urge during lunchtime and can’t wait till evening? Go into a hotel in town. As you are not stealing anyone’s wife or husband, use the opportunity to get refreshed.

What if your mother-in-law is visiting and is taking all the energy from your spouse? Take a moment when she is out basking in the sun or in the dining room taking breakfast and ‘have a chat’. The dose will be enough to take you through the day.

When you are out swimming with your partner in a private pool and you get the urge, do not hesitate.
Compare these with the planned sex you have all the time and you will see a difference.

Such opportunities may not come often, but when they do, you are at liberty to experiment with your body and get that rare experience that cannot be put to words.

As Oprah Winfrey puts it, to be fulfilled, one needs sufficient exercise, meditation and sex.

This is not difficult to notice as it shows on the skin of a man or woman who is sexually satisfied. Her face will radiate confidence, happiness and satisfaction.

Creativity is of essence. Don’t always switch off the lights. Instead, change the colour of your bulbs and the hot panties you wear to bed.

Quit those heavy nightgowns because they are a turn-off. Look sexy horizontally and enjoy your sex life.