- Rev Cathy Kiuna has taken time to school modern day couples on how to ensure the stay in love
- This is after Dj Mo’s pre-marriage test received mixed reactions
- Kathy stated that the reason why relationships are failing is because people have misconceptions of love
With the recent pre-marriage tests by Dj Mo about receiving mixed reactions, its clear that we live in a world where men will seemingly take women through pre-marital tests, while some couples will break up before all their wedding gifts are fully unwrapped!
In light of this Rev Cathy Kiuna took time to school modern day couples on how to ensure the stay in love despite it all.
“The reason why relationships are failing is coz people have misconceptions of love… People are leaving each other based on "IM NOT FEELING YOU" Love is a choice. When you make a choice to love someone, you love them with their imperfections coz guess what, you’re not perfect either.” She said in a rather long post
As it is, there has been an increase in cases of divorce and a closer look into the modern day social media groups will reveal just how much the marriage institution is at risk.
While most people hope to find their perfect mate, Cathy Kiuna was quick to affirm that no one is perfect and once you decide to love someone you should be accommodative of their flaws.
In her post, she also affirmed what kept her marriage strong through the years saying
“Every challenge makes you grow. Don't run from commitment coz of challenge. So three important lessons.
Law, choice, commitment. These are some things that have kept us strong and helped us get closer as years go by.”
Well, here is the complete post
“Love is a law. Love is not a feeling. When you come to a red light on the road the law says you wait for the green light in order to drive.
The feeling may be different coz you’re in a hurry, but you can't drive by feelings, you have to follow the law. Feelings keep changing so if you bank on them for the success of your marriage you’re looking for trouble. T
he reason why relationships are failing is coz people have misconceptions of love. When you love you fulfill the law.
Laws are not driven by feelings otherwise every country would collapse. People are leaving each other based on "IM NOT FEELING YOU" Love is a choice.
When you make a choice to love someone, you love them with their imperfections coz guess what, you’re not perfect either.
When out of billions of people you chose that one without a gun being held at you, you must love the choice you made. A double minded man is unstable in all his ways. Love is a commitment.
When you commit, you don't back out. You allow God to take center stage and help you navigate through every challenge. Every challenge makes you grow. Don't run from commitment coz of challenge.
So three important lessons. Law, choice, commitment. These are some things that have kept us strong and helped us get closer as years go by.”
