I’m guilty; I slept with my best friend’s chick
My best friend split up with his girlfriend last month. Two weeks ago she called me up and asked to meet for a drink.
We ended up sleeping together. However, they are now back together. What is worse, he keeps inviting me along to activities with his girlfriend. Do I tell him the truth? Please advise. Guilt is killing me. Hussein, Nairobi
Dear Hussein,
This is one of those things you should probably take to the grave. So as they get back together take a step back.
What do I do about my cheating fiancé?
My fiancé and I are engaged-- to be married in August. We have already booked the location and paid for everything from tents, catering, to my wedding dress and the location which is close to Sh500,000.
However, two weeks ago I found out that he was cheating on me. I confronted him, he confessed but asked for forgiveness. If I call off the wedding not only will I be embarrassed, but my whole family. Plus we have already put in so much money. I am confused. What do I do? Jackie, Nairobi
Dear Jackie
You deserve what you tolerate. It’s really that simple. So forget about money, and what people will think and ask yourself, what will you tolerate?
I made a mistake; I’m unhappily married, help
I have been married for six months, and every day I wake up thinking I made a big mistake. I have several problems.
The biggest being that my wife is very controlling. I love her and we are good friends, but there is this huge ill-defined emptiness in our relationship. Please advise. Jeff, Nairobi
Dear Jeff
You need to suck it up, and make your marriage work. Sympathy from me will not fix the problem! Marriage is not supposed to make anyone happy; you are both required to come into it when individually happy. If the problem persists, visit a marriage counselor.
Girlfriend has this male ‘BFF’ I dislike
My girlfriend of a year has a new male best friend (BFF). She is always on the phone with him -- giggling and all.
I have discovered they constantly meet up for lunch and coffee. And when I ask her about it she gets furious. I called her new friend and asked him to contact her at decent hours. When my girlfriend found out she got angry and refuses to talk to me. How do I handle this situation? Charles, Nairobi
Dear Charles
You should be very concerned. Thing is this man has staged a coup in your relationship, and from where I sit it’s just a matter of time before you get dumped. To save yourself a bloodied nose, and a broken heart think of plan B.
