Respect to all the ladies out there who fold their sleeves and get down to work, that is the kind of woman that earns respect and adoration from the society. Anyone who ever lived today will conquer with me that a good number of young girls have risen to embrace laziness and less can be done to help this sort of breed in today’s society.
Women ought to understand nothing comes in a trouble-free way, one needs to get down and do the dirty job If need be. Sometimes I question the integrity of this common phrase that goes “what a man can do a woman can do better “it’s regrettable to say that the essence of this statement is totally lacking from our new breed of women.
With the rise of sponsors across major cities in Kenya, a good number of women have mutated to these great think tanks and without blinking an eye they willingly humble you down to earth through a process that is blind to most their prey called financial siphoning.
So if you ever thought of being a sponsor, then make sure you always think ahead of this great breed, though they can never be tamed quite easily, they are smart. I was usually challenged by women who drove my dream car during my daily mission to work on my progress, I could not avoid that temptation of twisting my head to give a good look spotting a woman on the steering wheel, I respected and admired this, I use to think that “she must have really worked hard” .
Till recently, when one of my friend s gave me this bad or may be eye opener, as for him he respect that fellow man who drives a Toyota corolla than that pretty young lady with a Mark x on the road. For men, the probability he might have greatly invested on that project were quite high, that is not an argument.
Without trying to dispute the fact that there are some great women out there who have earned what they have by their own effort, done wonders and achieved everything they have solely. Majority of this generation have grown believing that guys out there are to be milked every single penny till the well runs dry.
As if that doesn’t count, they move on to fetch their next target, lots of men out there have fallen victim but still we never learn, perhaps the hard way is the best. May be you have hard those famous drama where by a man wakes up in the morning in an empty house questioning what happened? And the only reliable source to answer such questions is nowhere to be seen. You will know that kweli dunia imetoboka mahali.
Like I said, respect to all women working genuinely to acquire that single cent, no matter how tiny it may look, you have worked for it and that is just awesome. You are the true epitome of what a real woman in this society is all about. Wise men out there see pride in people like you, women who understand their true value is not based on a man’s money matters but on their own achievements, through their employed efforts.
It’s crystal clear that responsibility has become a two way traffic to day, that it can no longer be shouldered on one single person, that we are all bread winners of the family, and if we ever dream of a better life, we need to go deep down together side by side motivating one another to work hard contributing to the needs of the family, because at the end of the day, it’s not a man’s family but our family.
You and me by unifying our strength, we can achieve greater things. Pardon me ladies that today I had to talk about women, it’s because I love our women and respect them. Economic times of today can only be handled effectively when we join hands.
In the current life, men are not just eyeing for mke nyumbani but rather a companion; just like real women they are not out just looking for a sponsor but a worthy companion, a father to their kids and a good husband. Not all women out there are searching for that sponsor. Most men think real women do not exist, do you remember what the ancients said, behind every successful man, and there is a woman. Allow me to say this, behind every desperate sponsor there is a smart woman exploiting on his stupidity; financial stable men are nature by strong women of character.
