Most men tend to love their ladies very much and try as much as possible to always be around. But there are moments when the ladies need their men the most and but they are unavailable. Here are some of the instances:

During crumps: Most ladies experience very painful crumps during their menses. This is the most important time a man should always be available. This is the time the ladies need all the cuddling and pampering they can get. Just holding her tight and your presence may make the situation simpler for the ladies. Most men avoid these times because they say the ladies always have mood swings. But here is a secret, always be available that will make your relationship better.

 In the club: If you are the kind of guy who takes your lady to the club, thumbs up. But here is where you mess. In the club don’t leave her alone to go and join the other ladies on the ladies coach at the conner of the club.  Taking your lady clubbing with you is one of the best ways to bond and having fun together. But when you leave her and join your boys you spoil the game.  While in the club, floss her to your boys time and again; join her and the girls in talks. Invite her to the dance floor and dance together. Then she will feel loved and appreciated.

In the kitchen: Yes, the kitchen is the ladies pent house, but this does not the men cannot chip in some times. Most men leave the kitchen to their ladies solemnly. Believe me or not, there are some men who don’t even know how their kitchen looks like.  Once in a while, like on the weekend take it upon you to join her in the kitchen. Help her chop the onions and the veggies. Cooking together gives you a lot of time to talk and bond more. It brings the two of you closer, further more meals prepared by two love birds proves to be very delicious.  And if you are not a good cook this is the time to steal some cooking secrets and surprise her one day by cooking for her. Spoil her a little bit and  cook for her, she will love you more. So try and make the kitchen your friend.