You have had your eye on this hot dude for months now and all your friends are telling you to move on. Should you try your luck with him or focus on another dude? You are stuck wondering whether he is shy or simply not interested in you.
How do you tell that your crush isn’t into you?
1. He flirts with other girls when you’re around. If he really liked you, he would be making an effort to make you feel special, and not just treat you like every other girl he sees.
2. He never compliments you. He never notices when you have a fresh new ‘do’. A dude who likes you would be the first one to notice and tell you how hot you look. But if the hunk you like so much never bats an eye when you cut five inches of your hair, chances are he doesn’t care enough to notice.
3. When you text him, he takes forever to respond. True, no one is on his or her phone 24/7, but if your dude is taking days or weeks to text you back, he’s probably just not interested in talking to you anytime soon.
4. He doesn’t ask questions about you. When a dude likes a chick, he wants to know everything about her and loves talking to her. But if you are the one asking all the questions, chances are he doesn’t want to know more about you. Take a cue my dear.
5. Your gut tells you he is not interested in you. Girls tend to have strong intuition about people. If that intuition is saying he’s not into you, then he probably isn’t. It is disheartening when your crush doesn’t like you back, but it happens.
So, hang out with your girlfriends until another hot dude comes along. He might just be the one you have been waiting for all the while.
