It is baffling for some people to understand why young women would be attracted to old men. Everyone seems to have an opinion about the "sugar daddy syndrome" but the answer is simple.
Young women like older men because the relationship comes with benefits — lots of them.
Well, for the women who cannot move beyond little boys and into the real men territory, here is what you are missing out on:
Less drama: When you go older, you can say goodbye to "little boy" games. An older man will not argue with you over small, meaningless things. He has neither the strength nor the time. Older men also know exactly what they want and will not waste your time. They will let you know if you are dating or not and not take you round in circles.
An older man is also emotionally developed and has clear ideas about what he wants. Best of all, no random late night ‘booty calls’ from a man who is not sure he is your boyfriend. These guys go to bed at 9pm every night.
Financial Security: The truth is, we all look at dating the same way we look at a balance sheet. What will I get out of it? Is it a good deal for me ? These are the questions we constantly ask ourselves when we are in any relationship, whether we want to accept it or not. A woman will always look for financial security and older men are generally more established in their careers, thus more security.
When you are dating a 26-year-old boy who says he wants to be a rapper or a millionaire when he grows up, that is cute, but unfortunately, that does not pay the bills. An older man has a regular pay cheque and he doesn’t live with his parents or spend the day loafing on his mother’s couch.
Father and boyfriend
He will want to take care of you in every way. It is like having a father and boyfriend all wrapped up in one. You can never go wrong with this formula.
He calls: You will not have to beg to be called or do the calling yourself. An older man will call to check up on you constantly. He will also not be a cheapskate and send you text messages for the simple reason that he doesn’t know how to text!
He is experienced: Older men appreciate foreplay (I guess they need it more than the women!).
They take their time and are considerate and consummate lovers (well, at least most of the time).
He is more intelligent: He provides more intelligent and engrossing conversations. How long can you talk about football and partying anyway?
He is mature: Women are generally more mature than their male age mates. So when you find an older man, you have someone who just might be your equal in terms of emotional maturity.
