There are many gender-based myths and presumptions that prevent relationships to thrive.
A young man
who gets himself to a relationship with so many expectations of how the lady
should act and treat them is likely to fail in a relationship as well as
marriage.
The same
case applies to a lady who enters the relationship with the myths of how their
partners should act with them.
The bottom
line is that a relationship is made up of two imperfect people who come
together independently and decide to be partners.
The
partners have to learn everything by themselves and know that at some point,
each is likely to compromise for the benefit of the other.
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Every
person's experience in a relationship is unique, and hence you do not dwell on
other people's experiences to build a relationship. People, and especially men,
talk too much in multitudes about how a "woman cannot do this and that to
me."
Only a fool
will run to build a relationship based on that statement. In this case, follow
that man, and you will be perplexed to see how that man treats the lady in his
life.
The grounds
for a successful relationship, therefore, are set by two people who are ready
to understand each other's feelings and respect them.
Let us not
lie to each other. Every relationship is unique, and the success of each
depends on the readiness of two parties.