Someone
once asked me whom I thought cheated the most in relationships and the gender
that immediately clicked my mind was the male. I tend to think that men usually
cheat the most compared to the women. However, this was my mere assumption and
so I decided to take a survey by asking an equal number of both men and women
the same question.
Most women vowed that it is hard for them to cheat when they truly
love the guy. I believe this is because women love with their hearts and men
with their minds. Even Ali Kiba in his song ' Mapenzi yanar run dunia', there is a part where he says, 'ujue mwanamke akipende huwa anapenda kweli'.
Men on the other hand, confessed that they do cheat when they are
in the relationships. One guy told me that he cheated once and the girlfriend
found out without him giving any signs; this is where you will hear that women
have the 6th sense, which is true. I have never really understood why a man
cheats a lot especially if the girlfriend or the wife gives him everything he
desires. I am not saying that women do not cheat, they do, but men cheat a lot.
From
the survey I took, I realized that men cheat because it is hard for some of
them to be satisfied with one woman. They also have the notion that if they
sleep with a lot of women, they become some sort of hero. Well that's crazy as
it sounds.
Women on the other hand cannot live with the thought of screwing
around. For starters they will be called sluts and two, they have a conscience
that will haunt them for a long time.
