My man is broke, should I help him pay my dowry| LOVE CLINIC

Our viewer this week is in a dilemma. She is engaged to a man who she loves deeply, but unfortunately he cannot afford to pay the dowry her parents are asking for. She is financially stable and since she does not want to lose him, she wants to help him pay her dowry. She reached out to our Relationship and marriage counselor Dayan Masinde and this is what he advised her